To XRef parameters, you use the Track View - Curve Editor to publish the parameter tracks as custom attributes. The parameters can be animated.

hierarchy view, click and
Ctrl+click to highlight the tracks you want to publish.


A selection cursor with a rubber-band line appears in viewports.


If you are publishing creation parameters for the object, choose Base Object. If you are publishing modifier parameters, choose Top Object Space Modifier.
3ds Max publishes the parameters are custom attributes.
References
XRef Objects.

You can adjust and animate these parameters locally. You can also use the Track View - Curve Editor
hierarchy right-click menu to revert to the original settings in the source scene.

Use XRefed discards local settings for the parameters, and deletes the local controllers.